His father salvaging the marriage

I presumed after I talked to them about my strong dismay for Aaron, that why they are trying to be nice to us.

That day when he called me to "discuss" about the letter, I voiced out my dismay to Aaron's attitude. I explicitly told him how I struggled to maintain the girls' lifestyles, and he's enjoying himself, obviously ignoring his daughters' welfares.

I guessed it's after hearing my words, he volunteeringly gave me $100 for Dinah's books, which I rejected flatly. He knew it's my mother who has been helping me to pay partially for Dinah's P1 preparation, so he gave me the money and asked me to return her the money. I would rather not accept their favor, cos they might insult me as previously.

The uncertainty of their behavior are constantly ignited in my mind. I understand my father-in-law is trying to do something on behalf of Aaron. I'm touched but still not enough to reverse my decision.

I don't want to let Aaron has this mentality that his parents can help him solve his problem. He needs to act like a grown-up, tackling his marital problems. My father-in-law brings the girls out to play, send us to and fro my mum's place or whenever we go out (even though Aaron is together too), and ensure we have our meals (dinner or lunch if it's saturday or sunday). If he's not free to buy foods to cook, he will pass us $10 for our dinner (whenever I'm working).

Honestly speaking, I'm grateful for his thoughtfulness, and concerns for the girls, but should be Aaron's duty. I can't accept that Aaron being so irresponsible, and definitely not to mention living the next half of my life with him.

As long as he remains nochalant, my decision remains fix too. I believe eventually the scene I see now will change to be ugly. They will come to know my decision won't change no matter how nice they treat us, and they will be mad at me for being so insistence.

Mentally I'm prepared for such a day, and I will not let history repeat...........