Problematic conversations.......

I don’t think Aaron and I can carry a decent conversation. He’s trying to persuade me to withdraw divorce petition. I refused. Vague conversations still can flow through between us, but when our conversations become in-depth, that’s where our problems arise too.

What I see is still the same old him, unpredictable moods, irritable nature and insensitivity. Without saying, I know if I continue our marriage, the likelihood of us clashing will be super high.

I consider him too weak, even though he appears tough on the outside, in reality, he can’t do anything without his parents. Whenever he encounters problems, he will for sure turn to them for help, even minor issues.

I can’t imagine having to tackle him as well as his parents. Poof, this can be real tiresome. Even his parents can’t assure me that they won’t interfere, and even if they did, it won’t last for sure, as Aaron will use the “ultimate” to force them too.

To make matter worse, Aaron can’t even show respect to my parents. Eventually, I will still burst out. I simply can’t tolerate my other-half disrespects my parents. And he’s so inconsiderate, I’ve to work study and look after the kids, yet he never shares the burden with me. At least, bother to send us to school or work since he has a car, but even something so simple also can’t be done. Really disappointing! Initially he will do so, but after a short while, he will give me ample of excuses, and his favorite forever is unwell. Boy – he’s made of tofu……

Conclusion, Aaron is too pampered to change and he’s too dependent of his parents. My view is as long as his parents interfere, our problem will continue to be manifested. They told me that they want to gradually let him be independent, but I don’t have the patience to wait for that day to arrive. I have been waiting for 4 over years, and when will it happen.

Apparently, we still have a long way to go before this matter comes to an end or should I say it’s just the beginning of the worst……………..