Another round of disappointment

I was naïve to think perhaps thing might work out between us after all, but I’m wrong. Aaron is pushing his luck with my leniency.

For a moment I seriously thought he’s trying his best for the sake of the marriage, but so fast I see his true color again.

Thing was going smoothly initially, and for once we were on talking term. It’s good new, instead of hostility we managed to break some ice.

But thing seems to change course recently. Lately I realized he’s into horse racing. I was utterly disappointed in him. Still, I thought I could talk some sense into him. I explicitly voice out my dismay, and he acknowledged it for a while, but he continued nevertheless.

Somehow I found his addiction spiraled out of control, perhaps due to his long medical leave, leaving him idle, thus he channeled all his energy to gambling. Regardless of whatever reason it can be, he should knows my dismay, but he ended up explicitly showing his dismay of my constant irritation of his horse racing habit.

He made me feel like I’m overly concerned of his affair and I shouldn’t be bothering so much. No longer had he talked to me, all his attention has been on the horses. Well then should I cared too much of him too.

The only time he bothered to talk to me was regarding – divorce. Apparently our conversation is circling around divorce, so does that mean once I cancelled, we will also have nothing to talk, and that’s pathetic.

So on Friday night he asked me about our divorce case. He asked me if tomorrow (Saturday, 30/05/09) we are still going to withdraw the divorce case. I refused to abide. I was boiling mad. I voiced out my frustration, and he got mad. He called his parents to complain.

Anyway to cut the long story short, I knew they would “visit” me on Saturday (30/05/09), and as predicted they did.

I hated the way his father talked so authoritative, like commanding me to obey their wish. Prior to their coming, I phoned my mum to get her to phone me half an hour later so I have a valid excuse to excuse myself.

Somehow I get to speak privately to his mother, and I voiced out my stressfulness of their constant presence and interference. I presume she received me message. My mum called as planned and it worked. They left shortly thereafter.

I have asked my lawyer to convey messages to his lawyer. He can’t have the best of both worlds. It’s either he agreed to a deed of separation or we will head for divorce.

Like I told Huijun, I’m a typical lady who prefers my partner to shower me with love and attention, not one that ignored me most of the time, and doesn’t even pacify me when I’m mad with his wrong-doing.

Aaron really has no sense of capturing ladies hearts and let alone mine………

If he continued relying on his parents, I don’t know what will become of our marriage…….Our marriage is build upon his parents interference or should I say their over-protectiveness of Aaron………………