Surgery's Discovery

Friday (05/06/09), Aaron went for his spine operation at SGH. I did not take leave for that purpose but his mum did.

She called me during the intervals to update me of his condition. In between, there was slight miscommunication between the nurses and his mum, or maybe it’s due to their poor co-ordination. Whatever the reason, everything went smoothly.

His mum did call me to complain, and I knew she hasn’t took her lunch yet, so I deliberately took time-off to visit Aaron, so she can relax.

Aaron was asleep when I reached. We accompanied him till 8.30pm.

Saturday, I did visit him for a short while in the early afternoon. I don’t think I help much but at least paying him a visit doesn’t cost anything.

Sunday while we were attending church, his mum informed me that the hospital called to inform her that Aaron wanted to be discharged.

So after service, we went straight to SGH, while his father fetched the girls back home and bought them lunch.

While waiting for his medicines, Aaron grew impatience and started venting his frustration at the nurses. For that, I tried to be understanding.

We took a cab back to his parent’s house, and I stayed for a while then left home too.

Since now he’s home, I believed I need not visit him anymore, he’s definitely in good hands.

I’m still holding onto my stand of divorce. I sound heartless insisting divorce. I knew we would have problems later on. His parents never realized that they are contradicting themselves. They always say they want him to be independence, yet they are also overly-protective of him. I don’t wish to wait till the day they realize or pass away for Aaron to be a man.

I can understand its mother nature to be protective of their broods but to his mum extent is unexplainable.

Anyway, Aaron’s discharge made me realized that we have never built our lives together. His most comfort place is never our home; instead it’s his parent’s home. Perhaps he can reasons this with our constant argument, but it doesn’t matter much, as I’m tired too.

Our beginning has been a mistake and it has been worsened by his parents’ constant interference.

I guessed our confrontation will begin soon, as I received call from my lawyer that the date is still available, so divorce 1st hearing will commence 16/06/09.

Hopefully the matter can be resolved soon, so that we can move on our lives as individuals……………….